Assumptions and Anger

One of the things many people struggle with on their spiritual path is making assumptions. One thing that my assumptions have taught me is how they are a window into past life energy that I need to release. Whenever you are a making an assumption about a person or a situation, you are actually judging them and yourself.

For example, let’s say you have a bad connection on the phone and the call drops. You make the assumption that the person hung up on you, and they make the assumption that you hung up on them. Because you assume something of the other party, and you believe your assumptions to be the truth, you become angry at the other person because they hung up on you, when in reality they did not. This is one example of how assumptions can lead to a complete breakdown in communication.

Many times the undercurrent to assumptions is an unresolved feeling of anger. An assumption could lead you to say, “How dare you treat me this way?” But, what if the situation is not as you assumed it to be?

Most people make assumptions on a subconscious level, many they are not even aware of. Anytime you ask someone, “Why do you feel angry towards me?” You are making an assumption about their feelings. Every time you say, “You did this because you didn’t listen to me,” you are making an assumption about another person’s actions. Try for just one day to see how many of your thoughts and words are based on assumptions. Then instead of believing your assumptions, ask yourself, “Why do I feel this is the truth?”

We are all the recipients of assumptions all day long. Most of which we do not even hear. Assumptions are what gossip is built upon, and are truly a waste of energy. If you notice that someone is acting a certain way, learn to ask them to explain their feelings to you (Or detach from their emotional state), instead of assuming what emotions their actions are derived from. If you see that someone does not complete a task asked of them, learn to ask if they have had an opportunity to complete it yet, instead of berating them for not doing it. You see when anger is expressed because of your assumptions; you are contributing more to the energy of anger and less to the energy of discovering a solution.

As you dive further and further into the energy of your personal assumptions, you can uncover some truly insightful pieces of your past lives. If you have a tendency to believe that others are passive or lazy, ask if you judge yourself in the same way. If you believe others should act and behave as you do, ask yourself why you are afraid to be different. If you think that everyone else is purposefully not doing what you asked, ask yourself how you are not listening to others. Discover how your assumptions can show you how you are angry at, or judging, yourself; with that knowledge you can make great gains in healing the scars from your past lives.

Want to learn more about your Past Life Patterns? When you are ready to learn more about the Past Life Patterns you hold (and how to transform them), take the Past Life Quiz.

Letting Go

There are things in life that cannot be monetized, like happiness, freedom and inner peace. Yet, many individuals do not know how to get to a place where they can live a life with these qualities. That goal can be accomplished through the practice of Letting Go. Letting Go is the process of identifying and releasing old patterns from your life.

Some of the energy of the past is hidden so deeply, that it may take a series of events to bring it to the surface. So, why is letting go so important? Letting go is not about forgiveness, it is about understanding. Letting go is a process by which you do not forget about things that have come to pass, but instead you acknowledge them and build up a renewed viewpoint of them. When you are ready to learn more about the Past Life Patterns you hold (and how to transform them), take the Past Life Quiz.

By dismissing past events or by not discussing them, you continue to let them have power over you. By acknowledging them and allowing all of the emotions and energy to be released, then you are finally able to come to that place of peace within yourself.

Everything in your life is there to teach you something about yourself. Even in the darkest, most difficult circumstances, you are taught about your own strength and reliance to overcome obstacles.

You can also learn about yourself from the smallest events in life. For example, what does waiting in line teach you about yourself? Maybe it teaches you to be at one with your surroundings, or to have patience, or even to appreciate the Divine timing of that experience. If you find yourself getting angry or frustrated about something in your life, this is an indicator that you have yet to fully let it go.

When you do not let something go, it can become the center of how you define yourself. Many souls have been mistreated by someone in this life; this is not an uncommon experience. If you have experienced such a mistreatment, then to say that everything is good and perfect in your life would be inaccurate. Yet, this is how some choose to cope with pain. But, to let go, you need to move beyond that denial and say, “yes, this person did this or that to me,” that is the first step of acknowledgement.

Next, is getting into the emotions that you felt, and may still feel, about those events or circumstances. Let yourself understand and express those emotions. There are many safe and healthy ways to do this including, journaling, exercise, art therapy, meditation, yoga and talking to a friend, expert or counselor. Find the right combination of healthy expression for you to allow the emotions and energy to be released safely.

When you do not take time for this last step, you actually end up burying the energy deeper inside of you and that is when it can become physical pain or disease, if not dealt with. Once the energy is fully released, then you can truly say you have let it go.

It has been asked if there is a quick way to release this energy, just by wishing it to be gone. However, this is not how the emotional body works. Imagine if all of the sad emotions in your entire life were written down with a pencil on paper. One day someone comes by and says “you don’t have to experience that anymore, because I have this magic eraser.” So you erase and erase the words, but you still don’t feel any better. This is because the magic eraser cannot eliminate the imprint that those words left behind.

To get rid of those emotions, you need to let go of your attachment to those words; to bring up all of the emotions attached to those words until the imprint fades totally away. Does that mean that the words go away? No, they will always be there. Instead, through the process of letting go, you are now able to look at those words differently. And, one day you will be able to pick up that paper and it will feel like freedom, instead of despair.

Everyone has moments that define them in their life, some good some bad. But, do not let those moments have power over you any longer. Whether good or bad, they are not a representation of the totality that is you. If you are defining yourself by just a few experiences in your life, then your vision of yourself is actually quite limited.

You are truly unlimited and the more that you release the wounds of the past and allow them to heal, the freer you become to be attuned to the Now moment: the moment when creation and manifestation begin, the moment when you can always choose what to do and how to feel about it. Do not let your Ego pull you back to what someone else said about you, instead use affirmations to find a new mantra.

You can be renewed in every moment, so why not let go of those things that hold the emotions of the past. It is time for you to release those anchors of fear, doubt and anxiety and instead shift your perspective to a peaceful understanding of how strong you really are and how much you are capable of. You are truly amazing.

Learn more about the Past Life Patterns you hold (and how to transform them), by taking the Past Life Quiz.

Hold on to Hope

Things are beginning to fall into place, and you are starting to see change happening around you. Some of this change is subtle, and some of it is much more obvious. This is a signal that many of you have begun to walk out of the waiting room and into the new energy that surrounds you. It may still feel unknown, but more and more pieces are starting to come into view.

To help navigate your way, try to remember the hope you may have felt as a child, hope that tomorrow is a brighter day, hope for miracles in your life. Some people may think that hope leads to disappointment, but that is the case only if you believe it to be so. When you hold onto hope in your life, you create miracles around you; you become the center of a world of your creation. A world that is not reliant upon the fears and opinions of others, but one that you create in this new energy.

All you have to do is turn on the television to witness that change is happening. There are old secrets beginning to be revealed, changes in the power dynamic taking place behind the scenes and old political structures that are transforming in big ways. The dismantling of these external power structures is a mirror for the internal dismantling of how many individuals would give their power away to outside situations or circumstances. Imagine if you had been living your whole life blaming others for your problems? What a good way to avoid dealing with your own energy, and also to avoid giving yourself credit for your own creations. This energy dynamic will no longer be supported by the Earth plane, and this is the reason why so much is coming to light now and in the near future.

With this change in energy, you can see spiritual transparency beginning to take place. Spiritual transparency is about being able to see how a soul’s energy reflects their intentions. For such a long time on the Earth plane, many soul’s intentions were incongruent with their actions. Now each and every soul’s energy (auric field) will reveal their intentions. Eventually, no one will be able to hide anything from another. All souls who have participating in the old dynamics of fear, greed and victimhood will be “called to the carpet” to deal with what they have been running away from for so long.

As you witness these events, take your time to listen to what you intuition is telling you. Ask questions that can help you with boosting your own hope quotient; questions that will assist you in continuing to release old past life patterns in your life.

Are you holding any beliefs you have that are based on a negative self-image? Are you holding onto things in your life because of fear, pride, greed? Are you possessing all the confidence you need to create your world anew?

There are answers that will come along with these questions, and these answers can be the key to opening your new creation process. When you are ready to learn more about the Past Life Patterns you hold (and how to transform them), take the Past Life Quiz.

Along with the new energy coming to the planet will come new resources and new ways of doing things; be sure you are prepared to take full advantage of them by releasing any outworn beliefs from your past. Use your hope, and trust in yourself and Spirit, to know that you can draw to your life all that you need and more.

With so much going on, it becomes essential to hold on to your hope and find your strength again. That hope will always guide you to where you need to be. Hope is at the center of innovation, renewal and revolution. It is hope that is the seed for the tree of possibilities. Find that seed inside of you, and let the old patterns fall away as this new energy cleanses the Earth plane. As long as you have hope in your life, your life is bound to be abundant.