Expectations and Conditioning

Humanity has much fear of going beyond their own perceived limitations. For each time they look within themselves, they see only what they want to see. To help with their own understanding of themselves, many will often bring other people into their energy that mirror for them either their own likes or dislikes. Many times these mirrors are very bright, but most of the time humanity pretends not to see them in that light. The expectations that most people place on themselves are also the same limitations that they often place upon others.

Conditioning from peers, family and media also plays a part in the human drama. When certain individuals have a specific expectation, that is exactly what they draw into their energy. This continues to keep much of humanity in their own comfort zone. Until humanity is willing to escape the comfort zone they have created for themselves and break through these expectations, they will never be able to change and grow to the fullest degree. It is only when one has the purest of Love for themselves, can one harness that power to break down the walls built up by these expectations.

How in your life are you limiting yourself by your own expectations and conditioning? Do you Judge others? Do you expect a specific type of person to look, act or talk a certain way? Examine your own expectations… Would you go to an overweight nutritionist? Would you take medical advice from a doctor in their twenties? Would you take spiritual advice from a corporate big-wig? These are just some examples of how humanity limits their own experiences by creating a preconceived notion of how things should be before they even experience the event.

How are we in the world of Spirit going to be able to lead and guide you where to go when you already have a specific idea of how that should be happening? You may never know how many times in your life have you missed out on good advice or the help you really needed because you choose to be influenced by your own expectations or the conditioning of another.

Many individuals are skilled in knowledge and gifts that are not always reflected by their outer visage or by their first impression. We in the Spirit world can use any individual at any time to bring you a message you desperately need to hear, but if you are too busy listening to your Ego, then we have a much more difficult time bringing you that help. Think about all of the expectations that you have about specific types of individuals in your life. All of these expectations are judgments that block you from a deeper understanding of yourself and keep you at a distance from others and their own knowledge and expertise.

What about those closest to you, what do you expect from them? What if they choose to live a life that does not match your expectations? Would you honestly love them for all that they are? Or would you try to change them to think and feel and act as you do, or as you would like them to be? Quite simply, if you do not truly appreciate the individual for who they are, then you are not dwelling in unconditional Love.

God, The Ultimate Being, does not judge others as humanity does. God is pure Love and this energy does not have room for any human emotions. When you look within and examine the judgments and expectations in your life, you will be one step closer to fully embodying that true unconditional Love of God.

What is Love?

What is Love? Most of Humanity does not even realize Love’s true power. Love goes far beyond the care, compassion and understanding that humanity has for another, true Love fills the heart and soul and transforms your surroundings. Love is the ultimate “Sorcerer’s Stone” that allows the giver to change their perception, and even the outcome, just by aligning themselves with the energy from the Ultimate Being. True Unconditional Love is the strongest force in the Universe.

Look around yourself… How are you projecting Love? Are you afraid of what others might say? Love is not about being in a position of weakness. True Love is a position of strength. For if you have the courage to open your heart to all that is, then you can scale any mountain, swim any ocean and can get beyond the conditions of any bad day of life.

quote082215True Love changes your perceptions, so that you will no longer see yourself as the victim in the grand chess game of life. True Love allows you to become the Divine Alchemist, able to transform the game into whatever pleases you.

Yes, Love is patient and kind, but Love is also forthright and honest. Love reveals the truth and Love does not fear any action, reaction or potential outcome. Love only dwells in what IS in the NOW and Love knows that everything was, is and will be in Divine and perfect order, (even though humanity may not see it as so.)

The messages on this website are intended to provide humanity with compassion, solace and guidance during this ever-changing time. Through all that transforms around you, the one thing that you must remember is that you possess the strongest force of the Universe and that is Love. Look at every situation in you life with Love, True Love, and you will be able to watch it transform before your very eyes.

Choices, Without the Ego

This is a time of indecision for many on their spiritual path, and the Lower Self is trying to show itself in many situations. If one allows it, the Ego can have the ability to derail you. However, there is also the choice to go with the Higher Self and choose the path that is more closely aligned with your destiny.

Now, this is not always as easy as it seems and the Ego may try to tell you that there will be just as many (if not more) speed bumps along the path of the Higher Self. If given the option, the Ego will always seek the easy way out.

The most important thing is to not get stuck at this point of indecision and to allow your Ego to get out of the way, so that the best choice can be made. If another choice is made at this time, you will always have another opportunity to make the same choices; however they might not be presented to you in the same situation as before.

When you look inside your heart, only then will you know the true and correct choice for yourself. It is important that you make the choice yourself and are not dissuaded by the fears or conditioning of others. If you need guidance in making your decision on which road to choose, then it is always helpful to seek out a third party that can counsel you on the options that both choices pose for you.

Many in humanity are being faced with these choices at this time and as the vibration of the planet continues to change, more of humanity will be at this fork in the road. Be sure that when you make your decision on which path you will choose, that this decision is made from a place of Love, Strength and Hope. Have the faith to do what you always wanted to do! Now is the time when the energies have the strongest support for you in aligning yourself with your higher purpose.

This is an important timeline on the life of this planet and those who stay in indecision may have to let choices pan out in another incarnation in another time. Each one of you controls your density and it is the time to make your choice on which path you want to take: the path of the Ego or the one of your Higher Self.

Many events in the coming months will cause humanity to wonder about the choices that they have made in their life, so please make this decision with thought and care. Follow you heart, for it will never steer you wrong. This is not to say that fear and concern may not be present; for many there will be fear of the things that the Ego cannot control.

NOW is the time to do what speaks to you, there are no wrong choices, but making this choice in the present time can raise your vibration faster and propel you farther on your spiritual path than at any other time in humanity’s history.

Remember always that Love knows no bounds and whenever you are faced with a tough decision those in the world of Spirit will lead and guide you to where you need to be. Once the guidance has been given to you, it remains your choice to listen.